The Shift Within: My Journey to Real Change

Something that kept me stuck — taking the same steps, getting the same results, and going through same things was my mindset. It wasn’t early that I realised this; In fact, it took me years to notice I was repeating the same patterns over and over because I hadn’t changed from within. However, when I finally noticed it, that’s when my path to real change began. One day as I was coming home in car, I was quietly looking out the window thinking about what I truly wanted in life. What is that I am looking for? What could possibly fill the void I feel inside? I didn’t have an exact answer — but I did know one thing: I had to do something different, if I wanted something different. I realised I was longing for inner peace, joy, growth, abundance. And to have all of that I needed something simple: change. Not just outward change but internal. That was exactly what I’d been missing all along. I had to change from within, because the way I saw myself and the world, had been holding me back. 

I recognized that outdated beliefs and past conditioning were the main reason, I kept repeating the same cycle. My constant complaining, made me blind to the good things I already had in life. My lack of boundaries allowed toxic people to control me. My people-pleasing tendencies, kept me stuck with people and places I was meant to outgrow. I realized, that the only way to break free from these self-defeating habits, and finally start living, was to challenge those old beliefs. And that’s when it hit me: whatever I want in life, the only person who can give that to me — is me. That was the turning point. That’s when everything began to shift.

 I started to watch, listen and learn more about growth, manifestation and peace. I began by speaking to myself kindly. I completely stopped negative self-talk. I am happy to say that I no longer speak small of myself — not even as a joke. I shifted my focus from complaining to being grateful for all that I have. I started concentrating on what I can control, and I stopped blaming myself for things beyond my control. I began setting boundaries seriously and distanced myself from people and places that drained me. Those who constantly gossip, judge, and fail to recognize their lack of growth, no longer get my time or energy. I began prioritizing my wants, needs and feelings — without guilt. I stopped performing for others and started living my life on my own terms.

Of course, these changes didn’t happen overnight. For the past nine months, I’ve been learning, and consistently implementing new habits that help my growth. I am still learning, still healing and still moving forward — but now with a completely new perception of life. I start my morning with gratitude, by writing down ten things I am grateful for each day. Every night I reflect on the best thing that happened and I give thanks for it. Before heading to sleep I journal my thoughts about the day, express gratitude and write down my current goals.  This practice helps me focus on the positive — on opportunities and possibilities rather than problems. I read books that nourish my mind, affirm thoughts that uplifts my body and soul. I follow a daily schedule, and stay committed to what I choose to do each day. I believe in my dreams, and take action every single day. I express my thoughts and perspectives, through meaningful opportunities — whether it’s writing articles or creating short reels. I now show up with confidence, and no longer tie my worth to external approval. 

    The reason I shared this is because, I truly changed my life, by shifting my mindset. I hope this article gives you hope and proof that real change is possible. You don’t have to stay stuck in same patterns. You have the power to rewrite your story, to choose new beliefs and create the life you truly want. Everything I’ve shared is my truth — and if I can do it, so can you. This is your reminder: It’s never too late. When you change your thoughts and beliefs about yourself, your reality will begin to shift in powerful ways.